The other night I had the good fortune to hear some good
advice.
Eileen Ramsey, an independent Religious Science Minister,
listened as someone said how hard it can be to stay grateful. Sometimes what's
good in one's life is less noticeable than what's not good. Sometimes one thing
goes wrong after another, and then another go-wrong goes wrong. That's when
being thankful can slip down the priority list.
Eileen
listened and listened some more. She calmly suggested, "Let yourself be in
the solution instead of staying in the problem." Eileen suggested knowing
the solution you can experience. Know its details, surround yourself with them.
Once you know the solution (not the problem), it's easy to be grateful.

Swim in the
solution, rather than wading in the problem. Do more than positive
thinking. Do more than just vision what you want. Swim in your solution.
No matter how hard I try, visioning is dualistic. It makes me separate the
"I want" (now) and the "I will have" (later). The "I
want" acknowledges that I am without something, or I wouldn't want it.
Duh! No matter how well I vision what I want, it's hard to ignore that I do not
have it...yet.
But being
in the solution allows me to go to the situation as I want it. I can
be in the love and feel it. I can enjoy it. Revel and relax in it. I can let go
of the negative ("I don't have any...." or "I don't have
enough..."). I can let my senses--all 6--experience the solution to my
"I want." Then I can generate the want, the vibration,
and I can align with the vibration.
Here are 5
steps I have taken to learn to swim in the solution (and not just tread water
in the problem...and so be thankful for what is coming!)
1. Define your solution. Clearly. Go (way) beyond the absence of the problem.
What goodness, benefits, joys, advantages replace the problem? Specifically.
2. Sense your solution. Use all of your senses as signs of your solution.
- See your solution (size, shape, situation, setting, specifics...).
- Hear sounds of your solution (words, music, background noise, beautiful silence...).
- Taste your solution. Even when we're not eating, we can associate good tastes with good experiences.
- What smells--real or imaginary, sensed or symbolic, go with your solution?
- What tactile feelings accompany your solution? These may be real actions or symbolic feeling feelings: baking a pie, riding a bike, unwrapping a present.
- How does your spirit feel amidst your solution? Notice your heart, your emotions, your joy, your peace.
3. Put
yourself into a pleasing and repetitive distraction. Swim. Run.
Walk mindfully. Knit. Rock. Mow. (Notice these are physically repetitive and
basically mindless.) Let your mind go to the solution signs (above). Remove
yourself from worry about how do I make this happen.
4. Go to your solution with your mind and your spirit. Use the rhythm of your
distraction to allow your solution to flow through your mind. Use the 6
senses' names--sight, sound, smell, taste, touch, spirit--to prompt your
focus on your sensory solution signs. Spend 10-15 minutes immersing yourself in
your solution.
5.
Appreciate how your solution feels good. That's reason to be thankful. Make
time for the gratitude that can you experience your solution with all 6
of your senses.
Eileen is
so right. Swim in your solution. Surround yourself with your solution. It
brings the solution into reality. It gives you reasons to be thankful.
Thank you,
Eileen.